30 June 2025
Let’s be honest—retirement planning already feels like a juggling act. You’re trying to figure out how to make your savings last for decades, manage healthcare expenses, maybe help the grandkids with college, and still enjoy some of the freedom you’ve worked so hard for.
But here’s something that often gets overlooked, even by the most financially-savvy folks: long-term care costs.
Yeah, it’s not the most glamorous topic. It doesn’t carry the excitement of a road trip across the country or sipping wine in Tuscany. But it’s a reality that many of us will face. Ignoring it? BIG mistake.
In this article, we’re going to break it down—what long-term care actually means, what it might cost you, and how you can prepare without feeling overwhelmed.
These tasks are called “Activities of Daily Living” (ADLs). They include:
- Bathing
- Dressing
- Eating
- Using the toilet
- Moving around
- Continence
Long-term care can happen in different settings—your own home, an assisted living facility, adult daycare, or a nursing home. And it’s not just for people in their 90s. A serious accident or illness can require long-term support at any age.
- The average cost of a private room in a nursing home? Around $110,000 per year.
- A one-bedroom apartment in assisted living? About $60,000 annually.
- Part-time home health aide? You’re looking at $25/hour on average.
And guess what? Medicare doesn’t cover long-term care. Let that sink in.
Sure, Medicare may cover short-term rehab or skilled nursing for a limited time, but if you need help getting dressed every morning or someone to prepare your meals? You're on your own unless you qualify for Medicaid or have long-term care insurance.
Okay, not literally—but the earlier, the better.
Ideally, your 50s is a good time to start thinking about long-term care. Why?
- You're still healthy, which could help you qualify for better insurance rates.
- You’re probably eyeing retirement within the next 10-15 years.
- You still have time to grow your investments and stash away money.
Waiting until you're older or already facing health challenges? That can limit your options and make everything pricier.
Check out Genworth’s Cost of Care Survey. It gives you an idea of current and future costs by state and city.
Then, multiply the average annual cost by the number of years people might need care—a typical range is 2 to 5 years. Women often need care longer than men.
> So, 3 years in assisted living at $60,000 a year? That’s $180,000. And that’s a conservative estimate.
Pros:
- Can cover a variety of services at home or in a facility
- Preserves your nest egg
Cons:
- Premiums can be pricey and may increase over time
- Not everyone qualifies (health underwriting required)
You’ll generally get better rates if you start in your fifties or early sixties.
It’s like a financial “two-for-one.”
Many people make the mistake of assuming they’ll qualify, but the rules can be strict depending on your state. There’s also a look-back period (usually five years), which penalizes folks who give away assets to qualify.
That said, Medicaid planning can be part of your strategy—with help from an elder law attorney.
HSAs are a unicorn in the tax world—triple tax advantages:
- Contributions are tax-deductible
- Growth is tax-free
- Withdrawals for qualified medical expenses = tax-free
You can even use HSA funds to pay for long-term care insurance premiums (with limits based on age). So don’t underestimate the power of this little account!
If you don’t have an HSA, consider earmarking a portion of your retirement savings (like in a Roth IRA or brokerage account) specifically for healthcare or long-term care expenses.
Let your loved ones know what kind of care you’d prefer—whether it's aging in place or moving to a facility. If you’ve set aside money, tell someone. If you’ve bought insurance, make sure they know how to access it.
Having that open dialogue can ease stress down the road. It’s a priceless gift of clarity during what can be a chaotic time.
Make sure you’ve got:
- A Power of Attorney (financial and medical)
- A Living Will
- A clear will or trust
These documents ensure your wishes are respected and someone you trust can step in if you’re no longer able to make decisions.
Ask yourself:
- Are there stairs?
- Is the bathroom accessible?
- Could you add grab bars or a walk-in tub?
- Do you live near family or community services?
Sometimes moving to a smaller, one-story home (or even a retirement community) in your 60s can be a game-changer when it comes to aging comfortably and affordably.
It can take a toll on relationships, and many caregivers cut back on work or retire early to help. That’s why having a financial plan in place isn’t just about your peace of mind—it’s an act of love for your family.
Just like you’ve planned for vacations, home remodels, or your kids’ college funds—you can plan for this too. It doesn’t have to be perfect, but it does have to be intentional.
Start small. Get educated. Talk to professionals. And most importantly—start today.
Your future self (and your family) will thank you.
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Category:
Retirement PlanningAuthor:
Audrey Bellamy